11 Things I love about Ruhi

1). That she is always willing to help.

2). Her sweet, kind and generous nature.

3). She is such a hard worker. If she hasn't finished something she will stay up late just to make sure it is done. Were talking mathematics here people. Math.

4). She is super responsible and pretty much always does the right thing.

5). Her honesty. I think in 11 years she has once told a fib and she was like four when it happened. I love that I can trust her implicitly and know that she is telling the truth.

6). I love her patience with her siblings and how she can put up with some pretty irritating stuff and love them all in spite of it.

7). I love that she is willing to try new things.

8). She is so very good at art and has a lovely singing voice.

9). She always remembers to say prayers. On nights when Maryam is upset and I don't sit with them for prayers and stories, I hear her voice calling from her room: "Who wants to say prayers?..." Followed shortly by her own prayer. It melts your heart every time.

10). Our stolen moments at night watching a movie (or the Amazing Race) and munching snacks or making things.

11). She is content with what she gets, grateful for what she has and really has to think if there is anything she wants because as she herself says: "I have so much already. I really don't need anything else." What kind of kid says that? My kind of kid. And we love her. Very much. Happy Birthday Ruhi honey.

Worry is sin.

Today we had a pace-maker clinic at the hospital for Anisa. These, and the cardiology ones, usually make me so nervous. What will they find? How well is the battery lasting? Today, as we raced around running errands before our appointment I barely had time to think about it. I am finding that a lot lately. I barely have time to think. In some ways this is good. In others not so much. If I haven't the time to think, then I haven't the time to worry. This is good, because I really have to learn that lesson that we are all in Gods hands. No matter what. I tend to be a bit of a control freak and this is a hard one for me. I know it. I do. It's just that sometimes I forget. I like to have plans, back-up plans and contingency plans for those back-up plans. I need to learn to let go a little more and to just go with it. Not having time to think or stress really helps with that. As part of the kids read aloud program we got a book entitled Catching their Talk in a Box, the title didn't grab me and I was not altogether sure how much I would enjoy reading that story but it turned out to contain some gems that we all needed to hear and that I, for one will not soon forget. It tells the story of a Cristian Missionary named Joy Riderhoff and I won't go into the details here, but man if ever anyone trusted in God under all circumstances this lady did. Her life was transformed by a preacher who told her: "Worry is sin. If you trust in God you don't worry. If you worry, you don't trust in God." And she, like me, was a worrier, but she learned not to be. That is what I am aiming for. But it sure is hard when you have kids. I am not sure that I'll ever get there, but I am certainly going to try, especially in light of this up-coming surgery and how worried I was the last time. I am hoping that I can put everything into God's hands, for real, and be entirely confident and positive for Anisa's sake. I almost teared up as the pacemaker specialist told us that the battery is definitely being expended and we needed to book the surgeon soon, but I didn't. See? I've still got a way to go. We saw the receptionist, got the necessary paperwork and headed off for Persian classes. As we were walking Anisa put her hand in mine and I think I held on just a little bit tightly. We both have our moments, but man alive, I love that girl.

Ayyami-iha recap

Day 1: The kids arrived at Breakfast to find their presents waiting for them on the buffet hutch.Bayan was so excited that he couldn't resist a little peek. For which he felt kind of bad - so we decided to let him go first.He has been waiting for 6 months for this robotic dinosaur set (another score from the markets) and could hardly contain himself. The baby dinosaur and remote control were in his gift bag and he had to use the remote control to find the mother dinosaur.Ruhi got some much needed new clothes.Anisa got the ipod she has been pining for. It was also secondhand and only plays a selection of songs that we have hand picked. I am such a control freak.After breakfast we high tailed it to Bayan's tennis lesson and then went straight to our first Ayyam-i-Ha party of the season. There were games, and songs,gorgeous decorations and random bits to put on our noses whenever the urge to become an elephant strikesThere was lovely food, an amazing cake and lots of friends and fun.We cut the party a little bit short to high tail it to the neighbourhood centre where we were helping to host our community's Ayyam-i-Ha party.We had to set up the craft tables, make the sweets and organize the decorations.We made trays and trays of cream puffs and some basic cookies and then we got a little more creative. We used the 9 pointed star cookie cutters (thanks Mom) from Special Ideas to make some flower cookies. We crushed some hard candies in the middle to make it look like the flower's center. I didn't get to try one. They went pretty fast. But Anisa assured me they were really good. That was what we were aiming for.The kids sang a prayer together. They sounded awesome. A truly heart melting moment.All in all it went really well, everyone seemed to have a great time. The crafts were a success. We had prayer rocks, Ayyam-i-Ha card making and flower crafting. Some of the older ladies even came to make flowers as well. Bless them.Day 2: Featured a treasure hunt to try to find where their presents were hidden. That Maryam is so clever. She knew just where to go for hers, though she did have some help from Anisa and this is one of her favorite spots at the moment.Today was book day. All of the gifts were books (mostly second hand that I had found at the markets. Love the markets.) I was especially impressed with the set of hardcover 39 Clue books that I found for Ruhi. She has really been looking forward to reading the rest of that series and it just so happened that this lady had all the books that Ruhi hadn't read yet. They were as new, in immaculate condition and only 2 dollars. But best of all was Maryam's face when she saw this book in her bag. She was so happy. She opened it right up and just sat there absorbing it with a huge smile on her face. Even Bayan, who is pretty keen on the "fun present" aspect of Ayyam-i-Ha, was happy with his book and library bag. I love that they were content and grateful for what they received.There was a children's classes Ayyam-i-Ha party and dinner later that evening. With sparklers. Which they loved.

Day 3:
Began with customary warm Milo and marshmallows.

This was followed by some simple gifts, like much needed shoes, more homeschooling and lots of gift making for friends. Above are the aprons we finished today. Just in time for the party tomorrow.

Day 4:

Began with a string maze. I woke up early and, with my trusty sidekick Maryam, we wound yearn from each child's bedpost to a present that was placed somewhere around the house. The living room and hallway looked something like this:

Only it was better in real life. I had to up my game a bit because today was "handmade" day. The kids all got new aprons. Maryam loved hers and didn't take it off all day. You can kind of see her in it below. Super cute. I also kind of cheated, because I didn't make Bayan's elephant nor Anisa's fairy costumes (again scores from the markets). Anisa's Princess costume is partially stitched and even the Belle dress that Ruhi is wearing is not entirely complete.But I did make my own bias binding and the kids didn't seem to mind - so there you go. Note that pile of laundry in the corner. Why can I never get through all the laundry??? After gifts we got busy finishing off our world map tablecloths that we were making for some friends. The kids (read Ruhi) drew and labeled all the countries, while Anisa and Bayan helped color in. They all embellished the world with random animals. Just because.

The blur by Anisa's feet is Maryam and below Bayan got busy making new crayons out of old crayons and pieces of oil pastels. This did not work as well as we had hoped, but we managed to make enough for everyone to have a few sticks. Bayan rather enjoyed the bashing the crayon part. As far as he was concerned it sure beat the heck out of coloring continents or shading that pesky Pacific Ocean. We joined friends for another Ayyam-i-Ha party. The kids had a super time giving their gifts to each other. This was "Christmas Morning" Ayyam-i-Ha style, with yummy snacks and friends to play with. You can't get better than that. day 5:

We gave them this: Which, to the untrained eye, looked like this:

Which is why Bayan looked like this:

Until he worked out that the slips of paper in the jar were actually more than just slips of paper. Each piece of paper had a neatly scrapbooked activity listed on it. Something that we will do for family night each month during the year ( I did 12 in total, but I am thinking that next year I will rack my brains a little better and base it on the Baha'i months instead.) I tried to include a range of activities, many of which were either low cost or free, such as a twilight picnic at the beach, doing a service for another family, making cookies and watching a movie, or a games night. Some of them will cost a little bit more, like bowling, swimming and an outing to the cinema, but at least the cost is spread throughout the year.

We are going to make this Ayyam-i-Ha jar a must do every year. It is the gift that keeps on giving. Giving time, experience and family fun without adding to the stuff we already have. This was my most favorite gift. I hope over time it will become the children's most favorite as well.
Bayan perked right up when he came across the pizza night. Bless him.

The last gifts they received were from each other. They were so excited to be giving the gifts that they had so carefully chosen for each other. (Handmade is best, but with all the other handmade stuff we ran out of time... I'm just sayin'.) Because they have been earning money for a service project and because I don't want them spending heaps of money on things that they don't even need they each had one dollar to spend. They drew names out of a basket and each child only bought for the sibling whose name they had chosen. They were so excited.That is a bubble wand by the way. Maryam loves bubbles. I love how they really thought about what "their person" would want and how they shopped accordingly. This year the kids were working hard to earn money to send to Tonga to a help sponsor a couple of girls who wish to attend the school there. They've been doing odd jobs, cleaning and pulling weeds and although they haven't done this as consistently as I would have liked it has been good to have them working hard to help others. A concept that comes more easily to some than to others but I won't name names.

Last year when I organized the treasure hunt for the coins for the food bank I hit a couple of snags. Like not remembering where I hid the coins... umm yeah... Anyway this year I was all prepared and organized. I even wrote a poem filled with riddles for them to solve as they collected their coins. ( for those interested this can be found at the end of the post.) It worked really well. They worked together, helped each other and amassed a small fortune in the process. Which we took directly to the shops for them to buy groceries for the food bank. We added these to the ones we had already collected from members of the community and though you can't see it very well here they did get quite a bit. 67 kilos of food to be exact. We got to mention the Faith again and the kids were even treated to another tour of the freezer. They love that place. From the food bank we high tailed it to Hungry Jacks (Gag! I know. But Ruhi is nearly 11 and this was her first milkshake. So there.) for a much anticipated Milkshake which we enjoyed after prayers on the beach. The kids played along the rocks and we hurried home for dinner before heading off to Feast.

Oh and for anyone interested in the riddle / poem for the treasure hunt... here you go.

To help the hungry and those in need - to these words listen well.

How much money you will find - only time will tell.

Through riddles and prose you will gather your clues

and can collect a golden fortune if you so choose...

(Bayan) here is your first clue: it rhymes with pig.

It grows outside. It is a __ __ __. (Fig tree)

(Anisa) you're next. Listen closely - your coin is well concealed.

You must dig a bit, in the dirt, until it is revealed. (Veggie patch)

(Ruhi) a riddle will help you find what you need.

Go through the garage to follow this lead.

Stop at a structure sturdy and tall

that collects raindrops as soon as they fall. (Rainwater tank)

Let's all help (Maryam) find the next place

in our treasure filled, little, Ayyam-i-Ha race.
It's the spot where we bake and grill and cook

So peer inside and take a look. (Oven)

I am filled with all sorts of good things to eat,

cheeses, drinks, fruits, veggies and meat.

Look carefully, for somewhere inside

ten silver coins do secretly hide. (Refridgerator)

Family night often finds us here, watching movies on a screen

Look closely and a hint of gold can almost just be seen. (Television)

I am always helpful when there are dirty dishes around.

Look carefully inside for here a special coin is found. (Dishwasher)

We travel all around the place in this lovely thing with wheels

not knowing the aches of weary bones or the pain of how that feels.

So search thoroughly through our big, black, van

to find as many coins as you possibly can. (Pretty obvious)

With rubber ducks and bubbles I help you to keep clean

And somewhere underneath the suds some money can be seen. (Bath tub)

I'm warm and cozy, soft and comfy - it is here that you rise upon waking.

Search carefully between the covers and the coins are yours for the taking. (Bed)

Families gather around me to share their evening meal.

Now you must hunt high and low to find the coins I conceal. (Dining Table)

I walk. I run. I dance. I play.

I hide the coins you seek today.

Find the basket. Find a pair.

Find the treasure. Take your share. ( Shoes in the shoe basket)

When clothes are smelly, dirty or unclean

they get tossed inside this special machine.

When the clothes are all washed and out on the line

then you see the coins that sparkle and shine. (Washing machine)

Bouncing, jumping, running way up high -

bouncing, bouncing towards the sky.

You love my mats, you love my sides.

Somewhere here your treasure hides. (Trampoline.)

From places all around the world special things are sent

to our little box and to those for whom they're meant.

Sometimes there are packages, sometimes letters or a bill

But what you'll find today will give you a special thrill. (Mailbox - containg the last clue, 20 dollars and 3 chocolate coins.)

Let's stop here for a moment and remember how lucky we are.

From all this food to fill us up we are never very far.

Unlike some who must struggle and strive

everyday just so they can survive,

who never have enough to eat or know from where their next meal might come...

Remember that that could be us, right now we are just luckier than some.

So think about what you would most like to eat

if it were you starving or living on the street...
It is here that our treasure hunt must stop.

Now we count our coins and head over to the shop.

Happy Ayyam-i-Ha.